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Issue Number 24, August 2004

Kapatiran Issue No. 24, August 2004

OBITUARY
DEATH IN THE FAMILY
- Murray Horton


PSNA expresses our condolences to Maxine Gay, for the death of her mother, Ngaire Duggan, who died of a heart attack, in Timaru, in July 2004. She was 82. Back in 2002, PSNA toured Emilia Dapulang, a leader of the Kilusang Mayo Uno (KMU - May First Movement) trade union confederation. In her capacities as both a longstanding PSNA member and a national trade union leader, Maxine played a key role in that tour. For several days she drove Emilia through the North Island, meeting workers in factories, speaking at public meetings and talking to the media. They were accompanied by Ngaire, who was then 80. It might be considered unusual by New Zealanders to take your Dear Old Mum along on a political trip, but for Emilia this was wonderful, and entirely the normal practice in Philippine culture. She and Ngaire got on like a house on fire, with the latter treating Emilia like another daughter. They had a highly memorable few days and it certainly wasn't all work. They squeezed in visits to several tourist spots and provided Emilia with one of the highlights of her life - her first ever experience with snow (which Filipinos only know from Christmas cards, the real thing doesn't exist in the tropical Philippines, not even on the highest mountains), when they made a sidetrip up to a skifield (Maxine and Emilia were definitely the odd couple among the female skiers, with Maxine in a skirt and Emilia a suit).

Emilia sent Maxine a message, part of which said: "…I will treasure and remember your mom and our great time together while I was staying in your house. She became a mother to me even for a short time only… I usually update her at night about my whole day activities and meetings. I will always remember her favourite TV sport (football) and, of course, her hospitality and care. I will really miss her…"

Rest in peace, Ngaire.

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